Allen Edwall
All programs copyrighted
|
|
What range of harmonies should one be seeking?I have been friends with people I am -30 with and we get along great. Two others I know have a -96 harmony (which is really discordant!) and they have a love-hate relationship. But they are friends, not lovers, so they can split for a while, come back together again, and continue the relationship (friendship). Living together though is a whole different ball game. I wouldn't want to be under the same roof with someone I had a -96 with, much less have a romantic relationship (sex) with. There HAS to be someone better out there. So why not keep looking? By the way, the average harmony score is roughly +8 to +12. The average raw power*harmony is about 4,300. Back to TopWhat kind of expectations are reasonable with a thing like this?It gives a starting point. Personally, I wouldn't "waste" my time with a person I was heavily minus with, at least if we were in a romantic situation (and serious - if it's just a fling, then, well, I have never had one of those). And that is only what I am considering - romantic (sexual) relationships that might lead to marriage or living together as a couple. Back to TopDoes this analysis take into account "chemistry"?I believe it does! Back to TopWhat about mutual interests and similar values?That's where the details of the single and dual cosmodynes need to be looked at. See my articles on cosmodynes. Check out house comparisons - and the listed reference books, specifically Ken Stone's. Come up with your own ideas using the general principles given. That's how anything new gets "discovered". Back to TopWould you consider changing your lifestyle just because you found someone who was +50.00 or over with you?I don't know if anyone should change for anyone. That never seems to work. I would think +50 or more suggests you don't have to change!!! Or do you mean your living arrangements?? With +50 or more it seems that you already have good compatibility just as you are. Pursue things and see where they lead! Lucky you both if you have found a partner like that. Some charts are apparently harder to "match up" than others. Yet nothing is impossible. I've seen Person A and Person B have -92, Person A and Person C have -106, yet Person B and Person C had +36. Amazing, eh? Back to TopBased on your experience, what number as an "H" makes a couple extremely compatible...where there is little doubt? What about Paul and Linda McCartney? On the face of it, the McCartney's wouldn't appear by this system to be that compatible. Am I inferring correctly?Maybe +50 or +60, maybe more. You are looking for a sure thing, but there is never a sure thing or a guarantee. The higher, the better. The problem with any number is that it can never take into account timing, culture, education, past baggage accumulated and not worked through, evolutionary level, or the will of the people involved. So don't get too stuck on looking for absolutes. Paul McCartney - 18 June 1942, 2:00 pm, BWT (-2),
Liverpool, England (2w55, 52n25). Harmony = 14.28, Summed Power*Harmony = 313.49 for Paul, 104.37 for Linda, Raw Power * Harmony = 5,295.17. I think you are correct in your last inference. They have some harmony and it is up to them to enhance what they naturally have or let it degrade by their actions (something tells me, though, they weren't as happy - or compatible - as most people seem to think). That is where free will and choosing to act and live on a higher level comes in. You are looking for guarantees where there are none. The best we can perhaps hope for is someone that helps make us feel like ourselves (basic harmony) so we don't have to kill ourselves changing or always giving in and making sacrifices to accommodate. What we ultimately do with the compatibility (chemistry) that is "built-in" is up to each of us. But isn't it better knowing that you are spending your time and energy with someone who is plus 14 rather than minus 85? I mean we are only human. We can overcome only so much (oil and water don't mix - you can shake them up as much as you want, but they are not going to blend and become homogeneous) before we fall on our faces. You would think it easier to overcome relationship problems with any positive number versus a negative number. Yet there are certain people who can maybe overcome a negative number, just as there are people who can screw up a +65 score. Back to Toplast updated - 14 Dec 2002 |
|
Allen Edwall All programs copyrighted |